The Secret

Yeup .. !! it really works. it really has worked. .. all the time.. whether we know it or not.

Thoughts are really powerful. thanks to Rhonda Byrne for the movie and the book THE SECRET. 

Our mind is our friend but it doesn’t have the mind of its own. it listens to and it obeys everything we say, we feel and we think. All of us know the strength of positive thinking and positive attitude.  THE SECRET tells us what happens with positive thoughts… how the thoughts actually works.. where we find it difficult to keep up that positive outlook… where do we commit mistake. Every word and very though is so powerful, we must realise that.

here are the 100 quotes from the secret.. downloaded from the net.. Google dada helped me off course..

100 Quotes from “The Secret”

 

1. We all work with one infinite power

2. The Secret is the Law of Attraction (LOA)

3. Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting

4. We are like magnets – like attract like. You become AND attract what you think

5. Every thought has a frequency. Thoughts send out a magnetic energy

6. People think about what they don’t want and attract more of the same

7. Thought = creation. If these thoughts are attached to powerful emotions (good or bad) that speeds the creation

8. You attract your dominant thoughts

9. Those who speak most of illness have illness, those who speak most of prosperity have it..etc..

10. It’s not “wishful” thinking.

11. You can’t have a universe without the mind entering into it

12. Choose your thoughts carefully .. you are a masterpiece of your life

13. It’s OK that thoughts don’t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)

14. EVERYTHING in your life you have attracted .. accept that fact .. it’s true.

15. Your thoughts cause your feelings

16. We don’t need to complicate all the “reasons” behind our emotions. It’s much simpler than that. Two categories .. good feelings, bad feelings.

17. Thoughts that bring about good feelings mean you are on the right track. Thoughts that bring about bad feelings means you are not on the right track.

18. Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming

19. You get exactly what you are FEELING

20. Happy feelings will attract more happy circumstances

21. You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it’s not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song

22. What you focus on with your thought and feeling is what you attract into your experience

23. What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match – no exception

24. Shift your awareness

25. “You create your own universe as you go along” Winston Churchill

26. It’s important to feel good ( ( ( (((good))) ) ) )

27. You can change your emotion immediately .. by thinking of something joyful, or singing a song, or remembering a happy experience

28. When you get the hang of this, before you know it you will KNOW you are the creator

29. Life can and should be phenomenal .. and it will be when you consciously apply the Law of Attraction

30. Universe will re-arrange itself accordingly

31. Start by using this sentence for all of your wants: “I’m so happy and grateful now that…. ”

32. You don’t need to know HOW the universe is going to rearrange itself

33. LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW

34. You might get an inspired thought or idea to help you move towards what you want faster

35. The universe likes SPEED. Don’t delay, don’t second-guess, don’t doubt..

36. When the opportunity or impulse is there .. ACT

37. You will attract everything you require – money, people, connections.. PAY ATTENTION to what’s being set in front of you

38. You can start with nothing .. and out of nothing or no way – a WAY will be provided.

39. HOW LONG??? No rules on time .. the more aligned you are with positive feelings the quicker things happen

40. Size is nothing to the universe (unlimited abundance if that’s what you wish) We make the rules on size and time

41. No rules according to the universe .. you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond

42. Most people offer the majority of their thought in response to what they are observing (bills in the mail, being late, having bad luck…etc..)

43. You have to find a different approach to what is through a different vantage point

44. “All that we are is a result of what we have thought” – Buddha

45. What can you do right now to turn your life around?? Gratitude

46. Gratitude will bring more into our lives immediately

47. What we think about and THANK about is what we bring about

48. What are the things you are grateful for?? Feel the gratitude.. focus on what you have right now that you are grateful for

49. Play the picture in your mind – focus on the end result

50. VISUALIZE!!! Rehearse your future

51. VISUALIZE!!! See it, feel it! This is where action begins

52. Feel the joy .. feel the happiness)

53. An affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one

54. “What this power is, I cannot say. All I know is that it exists.” Alexander Graham Bell

55. Our job is not to worry about the “How”. The “How” will show up out of the commitment and belief in the “what”

56. The Hows are the domain of the universe. It always knows the quickest, fastest, most harmonious way between you and your dream

57. If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen

58. Turn it over to the universe daily.. but it should never be a chore.

59. Feel exhilarated by the whole process .. high, happy, in tune

60. The only difference between people who are really living this way is they have habituated ways of being.

61. They remember to do it all the time

62. Create a Vision Board .. pictures of what you want to attract .. every day look at it and get into the feeling state of already having acquired these wants

63. “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” Albert Einstein

64. Decide what you want .. believe you can have it, believe you deserve it, believe it’s possible for you

65. Close your eyes and visualize having what you already want – and the feeling of having it already.

66. Focus on being grateful for what you have already .. enjoy it!! Then release into the universe. The universe will manifest it.

67. “Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve” W. Clement Stone

68. Set a goal so big that if you achieved it, it would blow your mind.

69. When you have an inspired thought, you must trust it and act on it.

70. How can you become more prosperous?? INTEND IT!!

71. ‘Checks are coming in the mail regularly’… or change your bank statement to whatever balance you want in there… and get behind the feeling of having it.

72. Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas…

73. Go for the sense of inner joy and peace then all outside things appear

74. We are the creators of our universe

75. Relationships: Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others .. love yourself and you will be loved

76. Healthy respect for yourself

77. For those you work with or interact with regularly .. get a notebook and write down positive aspects of each of those people.

78. Write down the things you like most about them (don’t expect change from them). Law of attraction will not put you in the same space together if you frequencies don’t match

79. When you realize your potential to feel good, you will ask no one to be different in order for you to feel good.

80. You will free yourself from the cumbersome impossibilities of needing to control the world, your friends, your mate, your children….

81. You are the only one that creates your reality

82. No one else can think or feel for you .. its YOU .. ONLY YOU.

83. Health: thank the universe for your own healing. Laugh, stress free happiness will keep you healthy.

84. Immune system will heal itself

85. Parts of our bodies are replace every day, every week..etc… Within a few years we have a brand new body

86. See yourself living in a new body. Hopeful = recovery. Happy = happier biochemistry. Stress degrades the bod.

87. Remove stress from the body and the body regenerates itself. You can heal yourself

88. Learn to become still .. and take your attention away from what you don’t want, and place your attention on what you wish to experience

89. When the voice and vision on the inside become more profound and clear than the opinions on the outside, then you have mastered your life

90. You are not here to try to get the world to be just as you want it. You are here to create the world around you that you choose.

91. And allow the world as others choose to see it, exist as well

92. People think that if everyone knows the power of the LOA there won’t be enough to go around .. This is a lie that’s been ingrained in us and makes so many greedy.

93. The truth is there is more than enough love, creative ideas, power, joy, happiness to go around.

94. All of this abundance begins to shine through a mind that is aware of it’s own infinite nature. There’s enough for everyone. See it. Believe it. it will show up for you.

95. So let the variety of your reality thrill you as you choose all the things you want.. get behind the good feelings of all your wants.

96. Write your script. When you see things you don’t want, don’t think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don’t wants… remove your attention from don’t wants.. and place them on do wants

97. We are mass energy. Everything is energy. EVERYTHING.

98. Don’t define yourself by your body .. it’s the infinite being that’s connected to everything in the universe.

99. One energy field. Our bodies have distracted us from our energy. We are the infinite field of   unfolding possibilities. The creative force.

100. Are your thoughts worthy of you? If not – NOW is the time to change them. You can begin right were you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on.

i know u will try.. all the best.





Retired fauji..??? looking for a job .. ?? here is something to smile for..

Can we have dinner raju di.. chuhe daud rahe hai.. o come on di.. don’t u feel hungry .. don’t u feel tired.. the one eyebrow rises.. head still down .. on laptop.. fingers playing magic on the keyboard.. I am disturbing her that’s enough for me to understand..          

ok ok.. no problem .. do u need some help.. I mean .. some typing-shyping..          

‘yes I do’ … bang comes the reply.. I look at her to complete the sentence.. ‘please be quiet for sometime shaloo.. that would help (a small smile)..’           

okkkay.. let the mice die of hunger.. or let me pour another cup of tea in my stomach and your stomach..  !! and I know she will again make this laptop wake up at 4 am.. just to see ex-faujis having smooth transition .. having good placements.. having proud feeling.. can’t help a smile when I look at her focused expression .. as if she will be giving the interview also on behalf of others and the appointment letters will come out of the laptop marked to abc, xyz..    wow!! .. a Bravo Zulu..             

I have seen dedicated .. sincere .. hardworking people with the commitment towards nation.. unit..work .. and to self. Still wondering.. can people be committed to others for no reason.. no motive.. just to see someone happy and smiling with glory.. can someone shoulder the social responsibility and be so committed  to call up people for their benefits to let them know the opportunities are knocking.. to make them hear this soft knock.. and on the other hand can people be still be rude at times and react as if asking whats ur interest          

Is it that when people get something without paying enough for it .. they don’t value it.. that’s for the material things. In fact when it comes to people its worse..  we tend to take our own people for granted..   if they are very loving and extra caring than God save them.. we take them for granted to the extent that we don’t even realize that their care and affection is cos they love us .. why do we forget that .. why dont we realise that  it’s we who are so lovable .. it’s just that our loved ones are so caring and loving. Had read it somewhere .. The relations are balanced on give and take  pillars.. too much giving leads to too much taking and put the relation off-balance..   Is it really so??          

oh!!.. sorry for drifting ..          

returning to the current scene ..          

Lt Cdr Rajeshwari Kori .. (raju di)… is here with me these days.. her day starts at 4 am remains a day till 0000 hrs of midnight. How much I am moved by kori mam. Am sure armed forces personnel will be thankful to her one day. I am all praise for her.. and my dear faujis.. u will also be happy to know this..           

WORKFORCES  started six months back to make sure that the ex- armed forces personnel don’t have to hunt like kori mam , for the right kind of job.. for the right kind of opportunities in the corporate.. here she is tying with the companies.. Meeting CEOs.. Recommending people. Drafting resume.. Making calls to everyone.. Telling them about the  job.. Fighting with corporate that yes these are the right candidates.. but not for her job.. just to let others get a job..           

i cant asking her , “raja di .. It’s a great package ..  Don’t u feel like switching over ur job.. Getting this smart package.. u have spoken to the MD .. he is surely impressed with ur knowledge and intelligence.. the moment u say u r interested in the job.. the job is urs.. don’t u feel tempted .. don’t u feel jealous when u let other people placed on CTC much higher than urs..   ”       

“Well.. .. I don’t (with a deep thought).. I have chosen a low profile job so that I can have time for my two kids whom I have brought in this world.. I will anyhow take out time to help others and see them placed in the jobs they wish for.. I do not want to compromise on my responsibility towards anyone. I am happy in the low profile but decent job which I have received after a long struggle.. My only concern today is that I have managed this week to come here requesting sandeep (her husband) to manage for a week on his own and leaving my kids with my mother.. I better make use of  every second i have… i want to go back satisfied that I didn’t waste this time.. and that my husband and my children will understand this’’          

.. good people do exist.. i thank god for that..           

Workforces is her effort teamed up with a few other ex-faujis to see all ex-faujis have a happy transition.. they redesign our fauji Biodata of name, rank, number to a corporate CV. They go meet corporate . discuss their requirements.. look for all the resumé.. select  the right candidates.. work on their CV once again .. call up candidates.. brief them about company.. forward their CV’s by evening .         

The fee charged is 450/- for officers and 225/- for the non-commissioned rank. That is peanuts if we compare the benefits we draw from it and the expenditure they must be incurring on calls, auto fares, the time and the effort..            

To my surprise ..in last three days I have witnessed the variety of responses even from the candidates. I have seen people behaving too demanding after paying the amount worth a pizza and a coke, which they forget the next moment… but to workforces they write as if they have paid thousands or behaving too casual. After the days efforts when she calls people in the evening one by one and till late evening..  people react like oh I am too tired to receive a call .. I am for my evening walk or gym or having dinner.. or Can u call up tomorrow morning..  or some behaving too wonky.. comparing her seniority with theirs and talking from their stripes.. forgetting the reason they have contacted workforces .. there are few others who forget that she is lady or  perhaps they remember it too well.. !!            

Still her enthusiasm and faith is unshaken.…           

“Yeah I understand lieutenant  ____ .but just to let u know that the company is an international company.. I have short listed 5 resumes. the company must have  contacted other candidates also.. I want these details on the CEO’s table by morning so that he realizes our dedication. I know u will suit for the post..  I have convinced them for a package of 12-16 lacs. Rest is how u negotiate.. don’t want u to lose this opportunity.. be ready for an interview.  I have no choice but to let u know that they may call up tmrw.  U are registered with workforces and this is my responsibility towards u . I am sorry to disturb u but never the less be ready. (sorry that she is helping u . sounds amusing hai na!!)           

she gives a tired look .. why don’t people understand the jobs wont wait .. companies will go for campus placements also.. am I too sincere for them  ..   why don’t they understand that the more they delay.. they will be out of competition.. and I want to feel their smiles.. why don’t they understand.. anyway why should I get disturb .. I will give my best try.. rest their efforts, sincerity and luck will play.           

God bless her..        

for more about workforces.. please check out  www.workforces.in .

Kabir Ke Dohe

साइ इतना दीजिये , जा मे कुटुम्ब समाय

मै भी भूखा ना रहुन, साधु भी भूखा ना जाय ॥4॥  

 

saai itna dijiye jaame kutumb samaay

me bhi bhukha na rahu, saahu bhi bhukha na jay

 

रात गन्वायि सोय के, दिवस गन्वाया खाय

हीरा जनम अमोल था, कोढी  बदले जाय ॥5॥ 

  

Raat ganvayi soy ke divas ganvaya khay

heera janam amol tha . kodi badle jaay

 

 

जो तोको काटा बुवे , ताहि बोय तु फूल

तोकु फूल को फूल है , बाकु है त्रिशूल ॥6॥ 

 

jo toko kantaa buve, taahi boye tu phool

toko phool ko phool hai, baaku hai trishul

 

दस द्वारे क पिन्जरा तामे पन्चहि का कौन

रहे को अचरज है , गये अचंभा कौन ॥7॥ 

 

Das dware ka pinjra, taame panchhi ka kaun ,

rahe ko acharaj hai, gaye achambha kaun..

 

 

 

ऐसी वाणी बोलिये , मन का आपा खोय

औरन को शीतल करे, आपहु शीतल होय ॥8॥ 

 

Aisi vani boliye , man ka aapa khoy

auran ko sheetal kare, aapanhu sheetal hoy

 

हीरा वहा ना खोलिये , जहा कुजडो की हाट

बान्धो चुप की पोटरी, लागहु अपनी बाट ॥9॥ 

 

Heera vaha na kholiye , jaha kujado ki haat

baandho chup ki potari, laagahu apni baat

 

 

कुटिल वचन सबसे बुरा, जारि कर तन हार

साधु वचन जल रूप , बरसे अमृत धार ॥10॥ 

 

Kutil vachan sabse bura, jari kar tan haar

saadhu vachan jal roop , barse amrut dhaar 

 

दान दिये धन न घटे , नदी न घटे नीर

अपनी आखो देख लो , यो क्या कहे कबीर ॥11॥ 

 

कबीरा  गरब् न कीजिये , कबहु ना हन्सिये कोये

आज नाव समुन्द्र मे , ना जाने क्या होये ॥12॥ 

 

कागा काको धन हरे, कोयल काको देय

मीठे शब्द सुनाय के, जग अपनो कर लेय ॥13॥ 

 

Excuses..

have sooo manny threads spread around..

donno from where to start weaving..

life has its own way of teaching life.

just learning and getting annoyed, why my teacher (life) gives me so much of work..

wanna go out n play in the garden..

but mom (my heart)says.. look around everyone is studying..

and yes lights are on .. i see everyone studying…

life is a puzzle to solve..

i love maths .. i like solving difficult problems equations..

i love to show off the winner’s smile when i solve difficult puzzles in sudoko..

easier ones doesn’t interest me any more..

only when it comes to life.. i want easier sudoko.. easy maths..

why so.. ??

getting puzzled .. beating around the bush..

i can do so much tho.. but not getting me-time n me-space.. or that’s an excuse .. and off course that is.

how have we discovered these excuses.. ?? so comforting at times.. don’t do anything or can’t do anything.. and we just find the excuse to comfort us ..

Kabir ke Dohe

 माला फेरत जुग गया फिरा न मन का फेर

कर का मनका डार दे मन का मनका फेर   ll3ll

An Echo..

I was wandering in the jungle of life..

wondering what life is all about..

why so many ups n downs..

why we feel so low.. sometimes..

why we have anger fuming within us..

why we feel happy and sad.. good and bad..

the wind blew and whispered in my ears.. the words became louder and louder and starting echoing..

as if my friend telling me the secret of life..

that voice had truth .. conviction.. simplicity.. a beautiful smile.. and warmth

it was dreaming or day dreaming .. i dont know..

but i know for sure that .. it’s the voice of my true friend..

always standing by my side giving me strength.. wisdom.. and energy..

you are the voice of God..

telling me..

U   know one thing … people are actually good..

but circumstances n environment make them .. egoist.. angry.. selfish …. rude and insensitive..
dealing with circumstances become more difficult..  cos anger ego anger n selfishness spread more anger ..
it ruins happiness.. it vaporises love..
the worst is that everyone think that they r right..
no one have patience to think .. listen to others.. and to let the life be beautiful..
 
we are the reason for sadness in our life..
and we still blame it on others..
cos we fail to deal with them..  n with the circumstances..
we find it difficult to manage with such people..
 

 but actually these people are sick..
they are bechare..
cos they r harming themselves more..
than they r harming others..
 

happiness cant coexist with selfishness
since they r selfish…

whatever we try to do for them
they r so unfortunate they can’t even enjoy …
that’s why they can’t give anything to others…
not even love n respect..
 

cos they really don’t feel love n respect..
not even for themselves..
they r always sad..
n they feel that everyone in the world is born to give them pain..
they can’t feel happiness n love..
tho they have so lovely people around them..
they r always fighting with life.. with others .. with everyone..
see how unlucky they r ..
they have everything.. still they have nothing..

if we love them .. they will doubt u cos they don’t know
why u r doing so much to them..
 
cos they don’t know love.. they have not felt any..
so they can’t experience that..
it’s not that they r against us..
they just cant understand that…

it’s not that they think like they r sad ..
they actually believe in that sorrow…
they actually live in that misery..

they r really ill-fated..
 
they r actually bechare cos they can’t see love in simple things..
love is so much around us..
around them..
around everyone..
but they r blind..
they r handicapped..
they can’t smell fragrance of love..
they can’t see the flowers of joy..
they can’t feel the touch of happiness…
they can’t walk in the garden of peace..
they can’t taste the food of soul..
..
…
they exist in the non-existence..
 
but u know one thing…!!
 

it’s not THEY..
in the state of anger.. ego.. selfishness.. we all behave like THEY..
so it’s all of us..
only degree varies..
as the evils extand their territory ..
 
things changes… only when we try to change these three evils the ego.. the anger.. and the selfishness
within us n around us..

we need not to change people..
we should not
.. cos we can not…
 
we need to cure them..
we need to share the Amrit of love n laughter…
these three demons wont allow us to fight with them cos their survival will be at stake..
so the devils in us or around us fight with more anger .. with more venom for their survival..

its very very difficult to move them away…
yet this is the only way..
the only way to happiness ..
..
…
cheers for happiness..
cheers for love..
cheers for laughter..
…

 

A Request : Please read Rekha’s view to this post..  the post is incomplete without that. 

Thanks Rekha.. keep in touch.

Kabir Ke Dohe

माटी कहे  कुम्हार से, तु क्या रूँदै मोय ।

एक दिन ऐसा आएगा, मैं रौंदूगी तोय ॥ 2 ॥

Kabir Ke Dohe

                        कबीर के दोहे

  

धीरे धीरे रे मना, धीरे सब कुछ होय ।  

माली सींचे सौ घड़ा, ॠतु आए फल होय ॥1॥ 

Hairdo !!

Wow !! wat a dreamy Saturday…

I screamed a big Hiiiiiii !! when I saw Javed Habib.. I have heard people look so glorious on camera and in photos but they are not so in real life… But Javed was walking straight from some magazine cover page.. looking great.. with goggles on.. (.. ‘goggles on’ is important haan.. !!)

He is a professional hair stylist, i know that …but  he will also be good in talking, dealing with people and full of positive vibes…well,  i didn’t know that.. he has such a charm that his presence becomes so pleasant… Well well !! hold on .. !! I will tell u where I have met him.. I was so impressed and inspired by my friend’s adventurous hair do that I also went to Javed Habibs Salon.. I have been experimenting with something or the other ever since I left service.. so one more to add… !!

Off course I was in no mood to shell out 2500 bucks for a cut from Javed so I had chosen a Rs.600 hair dresser.. Here is money vs. risk .. less the risk more money .. No risk means Javed… but I love taking risks… (specially when its the only economical option..)

The salon lady was nicely shampooing my hairs.. when I felt a magnetic entry in the salon.. I opened my eyes.. and screamed a big Hiii…!! He has so many salon in delhi itself .. I didn’t expect to see him.. old hindi music playing in the background.. Ishaaron Isharoon me dil lene wale.. bata ye hunar tune sikha kahan se..  was it rigged !!! I don’t know… i just loved that Filmy entry.. and I didn’t mind the shampoo hitting my eyes each time, I tried to have a better look .. why should I, when ‘m getting better things to see !!

Rs. 600 told that sir comes only for appointments.. The ‘appointment’ arrived from NOIDA .… only for a hair cut from Javed.. good yaar!! ..  She was tall, smart sixty years old woman.. Javed said.. ‘Look good .. feel good’ is my motto.. Oooo.. thats why she looked so smart .. hmmm.. beating her age .. Conquering every bit of wrinkles on her face…

What a dhakkan I am ..

Why cant I cut my risk and be little bold to spend money..

Hey No… I am absolutely okay with 600.. the miser in me roared.

Everyone surrounded Javed to see his scissors magic.. 600 told me in a loud voice that every time sir comes we get to learn new style.. new cuts..!!  that sounded less of an information to the customer and more of an intentional applause for the boss as if saying that .. please hear me boss i admire you so much please remember this for promotion and salary hike.. , .. Ok..i nodded .. (..I am also enjoying waiting cos i have all the time in world.. ) . . the goggles were still on.. Must be costly one i thought.. else why the hell someone will show off goggles in room lit only with bulbs and tube lights.. there was no sunlight peeping in .. or may be i am so late back .. old-fashioned (.. which i am.. !!) that I don’t know the latest fashion… Amitabh Bachchan’s movies played in flashback of my mind.. he wearing goggles in night and in auditoriums.. O!..O! may be this  is the celebrity style..  the Bollywood hollywood types .. ekdam modern and bindaas… i should ask some of my hap friends.. they would certainly be knowing the latest.. and the in-things.. or I should see and read more magazine now.. i added to the mental note of things to do. . 

I was offered the adjacent chair.. 600 asked me what hair cut I want… I gave a lost look.. than blabbered..  well something in blunt.. or something like bob cut .. or something like that salon lady.. (o god sake !! why doesn’t he understand .. its his job to suggest .. how do I know.. m so ignorant with modern hairstyles.. ) I finally told him with an unsure voice.. Whatever u think .. whatever suits me.. but not very short..  His concentration was more to the next seat to see javed’s new magic.. then on my hairs.. I was also trying a side glance at him.. But getting the instruction every time… Head down mam… Head down please..

‘The appointment’ was happy with the result and left happily.. Javed kept on cracking jokes.. with each and everyone.. and everyone was flowing in his magic (including me.. do I have to say that.. ).. The next appointment arrived .. O marvelous .. a lady in nice cotton saree.. only 70-80 years old.. Wow !! ..  i am floored with these oldies…. !

I wondered.. may be that’s the age we realize that shelling money is easier for a small happiness .. Waiting to be 50 now.. .. I know before that I wont have the courage..  …. satisfied with 600 cut.. I left the salon .. listening to the old number playing in background… Abhi na jao chhorkar.. ke dil abhi bhara nahi..

P.S.  – the name of 600 is Trilok.. please forgive me for addressing him not by name..

Quotes

Dont dig over the past.. Dont fight over the old issues..

when its gone.. and things are smooth.. Enjoy the present ..

Make today the happiest .. before it becomes the past..